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Are you a giver or a taker?

Posted by: tcwright on: July 12, 2009

Givers/Takers
One of the greatest laws is the law of attraction.

The Law of Attraction says people’s thoughts (both conscious and unconscious) dictate their reality. So if you are constantly complaining and whinning about what you don’t have you will continue to lack. But if you embracing the postive thoughts and hope for the best, the best will began to manifest itself in your life.

I know, one way of attracting is by first giving to others…

I’ve always thought that you get what you give; if you want to recieve, start by giving…(your) time, money, energy. But what do you do when you are constantly the giver and the people around you are nothing but takers who dont appreciate shit?

There are two types of people…people who give of themselves and takers…people who always have there hand out. I like to think of myself as a giver, better yet, I know that I am a giver!! I am always doing shit for other people…always covering somebodies elses expenses, doing somebodies hair, babysitting, loaning folk shit, opening up my home to people, etc. I am exhausted and so tried of ungreatful people. So, tried of people saying what you do is not enough- give me more! Do more! Give!! Give!! Give!!

You know they dont say it literally, but their actions say- Fuck you!! I know you just bent over backwards for me, but fuck you! kiss my ass! and I hope your ready for the next time cause I will more than likely need you again.

It is beyond me why, people feel that you are obligated to help them…obligated to include them, obligated to take the extra slack and kiss their ass while you do it!

What is really on peoples mind???

Here is a question:
1) Ask yourself, are you a giver or taker?
2) Do you help your friends and family as much as they help you?
3) Or, are you always on the recieving end?

If you answered “no” to the second question
answer this (rhetorical question) why do you feel that people are obligated to help you if you yourself never offer your help to any one or anything else?

If you answer “yes” to the third question, it is time to revaulate some things. Ask yourself “what do you have to give?”
“How can you make life easier for someone else besides yourself?”

LIFE! Is about becoming a better person!
What makes you better…do you wake up every morning hoping to be better than the day before?

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